Thursday 6 January 2011

Journey to Kimilili

Dear friends,

We made it! We arrived in Kimilili! And it is much better than expected! We even have a house with running water, electricity and two beds! Unfortunately, the toilet is a latrine in the backyard and the toilet scarf is needed more than ever (the smell is even worse than in Nairobi). But Alex still has cigarettes left and the bottle of perfume is still full, so we are confidently). But let us start at the beginning:

The journey to Kimilili has been postponed by a day as we decided to pick the private car and we therefore had to wait for the driver to come back from Kimilili to Nairobi. We used the additional day to build two wardrobes for the family as well as an extensive shopping tour for the school in Kimilili (bought school books, paper, learning material and a lot of other stuff that we thought might be useful for a school that has nothing).

The next day we got up at 4 o’clock in the morning. We agreed to leave at 4.30 and nearly made it on time (we left at 6). We started a bet: if we arrive before 6pm, Agnes wins, after 6pm Alex wins. Prize is a mango (worth 20 Eurocent). 

We started the journey. The car makes funny noises every time the driver breaks. “Probably normal here” is what we think… About two hours into the journey we have a quick breakfast break and when we went back to the car, one of the tires has no air left. “This is quick”, the driver tells us. Four hours of waiting later we restart the journey. The waiting time was mainly spent with dreaming of a shower as we haven’t had one for a few days now. Meanwhile, not only the tire has been refilled with air, but the break blocks have been changed. “The status they were in, driving wasn’t safe anymore” is the information we get from the mechanist.

We continue our journey and the next 5 hours pass with uneventful driving. For a few minutes some small raindrops fall. The driver is completely overstrained. He slows down and turns on the windscreen wiper to the highest level. Lucky enough the rain stops after a few minutes. At 6.10pm we arrive at Kimilili. A few huts / buildings along a “major” raod of dust. It looks inviting. Children approach us curiously, wave at us and shout: “Jambo, jambo! Hi, how are you?” White people are hardly seen in this area and much more interesting for the population than the latest science fiction movie.

We get off the car and are immediately surrounded by board members of CBSM shaking our hands. We are very warmly welcomed and we feel we have been awaited for a long time. For the rest of the evening we unpack our luggage and try to make the house as comfortable as possible. One of the local school teachers will stay with us in the room to help us whenever we need support. AND WE FINALLY HAVE A SHOWER!!! (The first one ever since Alex arrived in Kenya. The water was freezing cold but it was the best shower ever!)

During dinner Rev. Wasike tells us about the local Kimilili costumes. What provokes an impetuous discussion is the fact of “wife inheritance”. Not only can a man have several wifes (sometimes even sharing a bed!) but once the man dies the wifes get inherited by the man’s brothers (and are supposed to have sex with them within three days after the funeral).

Today we will visit the school. We are much looking forward to seeing how the school is set up and run.

All the best from Kimilili!
Alex and Alex
PS: Alex: I owe you a Mango…

6 comments:

  1. this really does sound better than expected!! all i can say is dont get married:-)) or look at the guy's brother before you do hahaha!! good luck and have fun getting to know the school and children. big hug. rebecca

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  2. You can't imagine how wonderful it is to read of your adventures. So glad they decided to board a teacher with you. That will be an excellent way to learn more clearly to understand the people and customs. Can#t wait to hear about the kids!

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  3. Brings back so many memories of Africa.I remember in the 60's when we visited the rural areas of Zambia the latrines were just pits!It must be the mango season there.Just love mangoes! Take care both...Ayub

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  4. hi girls. love to read your updates which you post every other day - brightens up life over here significantly :)

    first of all: i have high respect of what you're doing! your plan is extremely generous and very impressive. a very courageous and fearless power-team :)

    interesting concept with the inheritance thing... i wonder how this effectively works with all their brothers in their numerous families. will this then become a part-time-sharing situation or is the first born winning them all? can a brother refuse a wife if he already has enough wives or if he does not like her? :) this seems all very complex and difficult...

    take much care and be safe! my thoughts are with you

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  5. @Marco: Why are you so damm interested about the wife inheritance????? Thinking of moving to Kenia??? :)
    Müsli and Alex: Happy you arrived safe in Kimilli. Wish I was there with you.
    Müsli aus CR

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  6. First of all thank you for the comments!:)

    @ Ayub: Well we don`t think they have changed at all!:)

    @ Marco: When a man dies, the whole familiy - only male, as women don`t count - sits together and decide who will get the the wifes. You can`t refuse if the family decides you are the chosen to get them. For example Reverent Wasike almost had to take over 7 women, but he was really thankful that the man survived! He refuses to live after the inheritance concept and is considered being a spoiled child. It's their culture... Marco, let us know if you want us to find out how to become an Kenyan citicen... :)
    Alex & Agnes

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